The answer to this depends on two things: your anatomy and masturbation technique. There are many ways to self-pleasure—someone could use their fingers, hands, a vibrator, or other sex toys.
“Water-based lubes are versatile and compatible with most toys but don’t last as long, while silicone-based lubes offer a longer-lasting slip but shouldn’t be used with silicone toys,” says Wood. She adds that oil-based lubes are also an option, but they’re not compatible with all toys, and they can stain sheets and clothing. “Ultimately, the best lube for masturbation depends on personal preference and any specific needs or considerations,” she says.
Your choice of masturbation technique also makes a big difference in your choice of lube. For example, if you’re a penis-owner, you might enjoy using lube with your hand, rather than a toy—in this case, any type of lube is fair game. But if you self-lubricate and want to use an insertable toy, you might consider a water-based lube. If you’re into anal play, and using only fingers, you might consider a silicone-based lube as it lasts longer and you need less of it.
It’s also important to note that if you’re planning to have penetrative sex with a condom within a few hours after masturbating, then you will not want an oil-based lubricant, board certified ob-gyn Greg Merchand, MD, explains. That’s because oil-based lubricants, like petroleum jelly, can weaken and destroy condoms.
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