We just made it through a long January, to say the least. So with Valentine’s Day approaching, it’s a prime time to treat yourself no matter your dating status. Whether you’re casually dating, in a long-term relationship, planning a girls’ night, or simply showing love to your ultimate Valentine (read: yourself), here’s some date-night planning and gifting inspo based on your—and/or your beloved’s—astrological sign.
Tip: If you know your Venus sign, it’s worth reading the ‘scope for that too. After all, this ruling planet oversees all things love and intimacy. (Plus, a fun fact: In Roman mythology, Venus is Cupid’s mother.)
Aries
When it comes to pleasing an Aries, you really can’t go wrong by thinking about what sparks their senses or makes them come alive. Green lights for Valentine’s Day include but aren’t limited to gift baskets with spicy chocolates and palate-provoking flavors, taking them out to dance the night away, or simply surprising them with an item or experience you’re sure will make them light up.
Taurus
Valentine’s Day is practically built for the innately sensual Taurus. Fortunately, you really can’t go wrong by leaning on tried-and-true V-Day staples. They’ll love everything from gourmet meals and decadent chocolates to the scent of fresh roses or a new perfume.
Gemini
These social butterflies are best suited for Valentine’s Day plans that allow for opportunities to chat and pique their curiosity, so it’s best for them to get out of the house and into the wild. Inject more creativity to your usual dates by pairing a dinner out with engaging activities like an escape room or DIY cocktail bar crawl to keep them on their toes.
Cancer
Cancers don’t need bells and whistles on Valentine’s Day, but rather simple yet thoughtful gestures to know that they’re seen and appreciated. A heartfelt note, a handmade gift, and anything else that oozes sentimentality will go a long way to make them feel adored.
Leo
If you’re a Leo or dating one, chances are you know that they’ll positively eat up anything that suggests luxury, decadence, or a grand gesture. A designer tchotchke, sharing a bottle of champagne at a see-and-be-seen lounge, or delivering a huge bouquet of roses are all winning Valentine’s Day ideas that Lions will love.
Virgo
Virgos are among the most considerate signs in the zodiac, running a mental mile a minute to ensure that everything—and everyone—is covered. Keeping things in order 24/7 can take a toll on their mind and body alike, making a solo or couple’s massage an ideal gift for some much-needed R&R. (Better yet, they’ll love the health benefits like relief from body aches, improved blood flow, and an overall sense of lightness and well-being.)
Libra
While Libras don’t typically need anything too over the top, they do prefer quality over quantity—whether that’s in terms of gifts, dates, or relationships on the whole. This Valentine’s Day, consider expressing your affection for the Libra in your life with gifts like cozy clothes or classic accessories in high-quality materials, or by making a date just a touch more special by taking them to a chef’s restaurant specializing in their favorite cuisine.
Scorpio
Scorpios are also built for Valentine’s Day vibes—so long as you lean more into sensuality versus cookie-cutter gifts and outings. Get the mood right by heading to a swanky speakeasy bar with lush interiors, enjoying a candlelit dinner whether home or out, or transforming the bedroom into a pleasure zone with low lighting and sexy music… and maybe some toys or new lingerie.
Sagittarius
Since Sags are the explorers of the zodiac, consider planning activities that suggest a sense of discovery or adventure. This could look like visiting a new exhibition at an art gallery, enjoying a tasting menu of foods or wine from a faraway land, or even pulling out the big guns by surprising them with a romantic weekend in a new city they’ve never been to before.
Capricorn
Truth be told, a practical Capricorn will typically prefer to call the shots on Valentine’s Day. Read: It’s probably not worth bending over backwards to surprise them or come up with an inventive plan or gift idea, even if your heart’s in the right place. Perhaps they’ll tell you that a simple yet unromantic gift would be perfect for the occasion, or that staying in with you without any frills sounds like a solid plan. It might not sound super romantic, but you’ll be speaking their love language. (P.S. Don’t shy away from telling them what you want this Valentine’s Day, either, as they’ll appreciate the directness more so than most signs would.)
Aquarius
Aquarians are forward-thinking, so they enjoy things that have techy (or even futuristic) elements or enable them to foster a sense of growth. Maybe it’s a good time to gift them a new gadget they’ve been eyeing, but you could also go analog by buying a book or guided journal to expand their mental horizons. Given their appreciation for momentum, Valentine’s Day also offers the perfect opportunity for more priceless gifts, like discussing taking your relationship to the next level.
Pisces
Pisces like to connect on a deep level, so thoughtful gestures and quality time will mean a lot more to them than fancy gifts ever will. Focus on creating a cozy, intimate environment in which you can truly share a heart-to-heart, ideally at home or in an otherwise quiet environment. One winning idea: asking each other these 36 questions—which can either help you fall in love or make your bond grow so much deeper.
